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You were so in love at the beginning . .
And now it's all falling apart?


A healthy safe & secure relationship is

one of the most valuable resources
you'll ever have
.


  Reignite the spark &  take your relationship
    to the next  level





 

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FOR COUPLES THERAPY - CHOOSE A COUPLES THERAPIST 

utilizing EFT, PACT & NVC

(See videos at bottom of page)

Professional Effective In Person & Online Therapy for All of California


Couples, Families & Individuals

 

​  FREE 30 minute video consultation

Learn skills & begin to understand your dynamic in this one session

Text, call or e-mail: 408-357-9187  couplescounselingthatworks@gmail.com

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DO  THESE CHALLENGES

SOUND FAMILIAR? : 

~Not feeling heard, understood,

  cared about? 

~Toxic conflict?

~Shaming, blaming or reactivity?

~Withdrawing?

~Not feeling valued?

~Feeling like you don't matter?

~Growing apart?

~Little affection?

~Infidelity?

~Mistrust or dishonesty?

~Feeling unsafe, scared or lonely?

~Can't count on each other? 

~Feeling dropped or disregarded?

~Feeling forgotten or let down?  

~Same arguments over & over? 

~Longing for help? 

I use highly-effective

relationship therapy

modalities such as:

*EFT - Emotionally Focused

Couples Therapy  

*PACT - Psychobiological

Approach to Couples

Therapy

*NVC - Non-Violent

Communication

 

WHY WORK WITH ME?  RELATIONSHIP THERAPY LIGHTS ME UP! 

I bring a rare and optimal blend of wisdom, compassion, education and a treasure chest of skills and tools to my work with people in challenging relationships . . . . more

YOUR RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BE A 

REFUGE FROM LIFE'S CHALLENGES

NOT AN ADDED SOURCE

OF STRUGGLE

 

 

 

 

 


THERAPY DESIGNED FOR RELATIONSHIPS

CAN BE A GAME-CHANGER!

LEARN:

* To feel safe with each other

* To experience deeper & more tender emotions with each other

* To de-escalate conflict

* To grow closer instead of further apart

* To repair breakdowns

* To meet your KUSH needs - know, understand, see & hear each other

* About attachment & attachment styles

* About childhood issues that are showing up in your adult relationship

* To experience more touch, affection & holding

* To share from your VAT - vulnerability, authenticity & transparency

* NVC - Non-Violent Communication Skills

* To express gratitude & admiration for each other

* To "be there" for each other

* To be able to count on each other

* To feel that you MATTER 

* How the brain & nervous system play a significant role in your relationship

* To soothe & comfort each other

* "Love practices” & many other skills & tools

                           

Annette Barnett, MA, AMFT 

Associate Marriage & Family Therapist

 

COUPLES, INDIVIDUALS &

FAMILY COUNSELING

                     

VIDEO TELETHERAPY - ALL OF

CALIFORNIA

 

IN PERSON - SARATOGA, SCOTTS VALLEY

& SANTA CRUZ

408-357-4187

couplescounselingthatworks@gmail.com

LGBTQIA + BIPOC positive 

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STAN TATKIN - PACT 
Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy
How To Have A Great Marriage

SUE JOHNSON - EFT  Emotionally Focused Therapy

$160/50 minutes - individual session

$170/50 minutes - couples/family sessions

$220/75 minutes - couples/family sessions

$250/90 minutes - couples/family sessions

Limited sliding scale spots available

I am not on insurance panels, but can provide a superbill for reimbursement

    FREE 20 to 30 minute no obligation video call

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