Scotts Valley & South Bay locations
couplestherapythatworks@gmail.com
408-357-9187

You were so in love at the beginning . .
And now it's all falling apart?
A healthy safe & secure relationship is
one of the most valuable resources
you'll ever have.
Reignite the spark & take your relationship
to the next level

FOR COUPLES THERAPY - CHOOSE A COUPLES THERAPIST
utilizing EFT, PACT & NVC
(See videos at bottom of page)
Trauma, Interpersonal Neurobiology & Poly-vagal informed
Professional Effective In Person & Online Therapy for All of California
I primarily works with COUPLES
as well as FAMILIES & INDIVIDUALS with relationship issues, while also
addressing childhood trauma that impacts current day relationships
NOW ALSO OFFERING NEUROAFFECTIVE TOUCH
NATouch gently supports nervous system regulation through
trauma-informed touch—either therapist-provided on a table or self-touch
guided by the therapist. This nurturing, protective, containing approach
rebuilds safety from within, healing attachment wounds, releasing stored
trauma, and restoring embodied connection.
FREE 30 minute video consultation
Text, call or e-mail: 408-357-9187 annette@couplestherapyheals.biz

DO THESE CHALLENGES
SOUND FAMILIAR? :
~Not feeling heard, understood,
cared about?
~Toxic conflict?
~Shaming, blaming or reactivity?
~Withdrawing?
~Not feeling valued?
~Feeling like you don't matter?
~Growing apart?
~Little affection?
~Infidelity?
~Mistrust or dishonesty?
~Feeling unsafe, scared or lonely?
~Can't count on each other?
~Feeling dropped or disregarded?
~Feeling forgotten or let down?
~Same arguments over & over?
~Longing for help?
I use highly-effective
relationship & trauma therapy
modalities such as:
*EFT - Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapy
*PACT - Psychobiological
Approach to Couples
Therapy
*NVC - Non-Violent
Communication
*EMDR - trauma therapy
WHY WORK WITH ME? RELATIONSHIP THERAPY LIGHTS ME UP!
I bring a rare and optimal blend of wisdom, compassion, education and a treasure chest of skills and tools to my work with people in challenging relationships . . . . more

YOUR RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BE A
REFUGE FROM LIFE'S CHALLENGES
NOT AN ADDED SOURCE
OF STRUGGLE
THERAPY DESIGNED FOR RELATIONSHIPS
CAN BE A GAME-CHANGER!

LEARN:
* To feel safe with each other
* To experience deeper & more tender emotions with each other
* To de-escalate conflict
* To grow closer instead of further apart
* To repair breakdowns
* To meet your KUSH needs - know, understand, see & hear each other
* About attachment & attachment styles
* About childhood issues that are showing up in your adult relationship
* To experience more touch, affection & holding
* To share from your VAT - vulnerability, authenticity & transparency
* NVC - Non-Violent Communication Skills
* To express gratitude & admiration for each other
* To "be there" for each other
* To be able to count on each other
* To feel that you MATTER
* How the brain & nervous system play a significant role in your relationship
* To soothe & comfort each other
* "Love practices” & many other skills & tools
Annette Barnett, MA, LMFT #162649
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
COUPLES, INDIVIDUALS &
FAMILY COUNSELING
VIDEO TELETHERAPY - ALL OF
CALIFORNIA
IN PERSON - SOUTH BAY, SCOTTS VALLEY
& SANTA CRUZ
408-357-9187
annette@couplestherapyheals.biz
LGBTQIA + BIPOC positive

STAN TATKIN - PACT
Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy
How To Have A Great Marriage
SUE JOHNSON - EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy
$180/60 minutes - individual session
$200/60 minutes - couples/family sessions
$240/75 minutes - couples/family sessions
$280/90 minutes - couples/family sessions
Limited sliding scale spots available
I accept private pay & provide superbills
FREE 30 to 40 minute no obligation video consultation